For the purpose of this assignment I am going to imagine
that I have a family moving from Spain and enrolling their child in my
Kindergarten class. This has happened
several times before, but without advanced notice I will say that I don’t feel
I was as prepared or as culturally sensitive as I could have been.
I would want to first prepare myself by researching their
country of origin and finding out as much information on the family as
possible. Being well-informed will lead to
a better understanding of where the family is coming from culturally,
linguistically, etc.
Another thing that I would consider quite important is
ensuring that I am able to say the child’s name correctly. Sometimes names have special accents or can
be hard to pronounce. It would be
important for me to know how to address the child properly so he/she felt
welcome and valued. My brother’s name is
Nasser and it is commonly mispronounced.
He gets frustrated when people don’t even try to say his name the right
way. I also previously had a student
from Spain who went by his middle name instead of his first name. All are important things to know ahead of
time.
The family’s language of origin would be something important
to know as well. Assuming that a family
from Spain speaks Spanish could be a mistake, however well-intentioned. I had a student from Spain a few years ago
and it turns out he and his family spoke perfect English. While they had lived in Spain for a few years
they were there for the husbands work and had previously lived in the US. Checking to learn real information instead of
making assumptions would be important.
If the family did speak another language primarily I would be curious to
know how much English they know. If the
answer is no or limited English, I would be looking for a translator to help
bridge communication. I might also learn
a few words or phrases to help ease the child into the classroom and better
communicate with parents.
Learning what holidays are celebrated by the family would be
another step. Our school calendar
follows Christian holidays as far as days off go. If the family practiced another religion I
would want to know and be aware that they may miss days or celebrate
alternatively. It would also be
imperative to know their religious practices if they had any effect on the
child’s diet. I have previously taught
children who had religious beliefs that prohibited them from eating both beef
and pork.
Finally, I would want to know about the culture of their
country as well as their family culture.
It would be important to know the roles of family members and their
views on education. If one parent was
the spokesperson more than another I would want to know that. Views and values on education are important
to understand when they are different from my own. I have had families who have very high
expectations of their Kindergartners and others who do not value the lessons
taught in hands-on ways and would prefer worksheets. These are all things that are important to
know.
My hope would be that these preparations would give me a
foundation on which to form a relationship with the family. Even if the information I gathered was not
all accurate, the family would see that I am trying and that I value them as a
part of my classroom community.
Allison, I appreciate your honesty in choosing a country based on the situation having happened before. i think that most have us have not done well by students with foreign backgrounds nor have we been as prepared as we would have liked to be in easing the transition into our culture. This class has been a good reminder on the improvements we can make to our classrooms.
ReplyDeleteAllison,
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed reading your post; you made me realize a few things. I did not mention that the pronunciation of the child’s name would be important to know. You are correct, the pronunciation of a name is very important. All throughout my life, my name has been mispronounced; some people say LaLa, and other variations. My name is pronounced Lah-Lah (Lilah); it is Hebrew and sometimes people are unaware of the pronunciation. While in school, I hated to hear my name called, if it was not said correctly. I know how your brother feels. When my name is said correctly, it makes me feel important. You also mentioned that it is important to know about the family’s religion and special holidays; I agree. I do not celebrate Christmas, Easter, or Halloween; my special holidays were not acknowledged or respected at school. I always felt left out and unimportant. Now, children who celebrate Hanukkah, Purim, and Passover are being acknowledged is many schools; I know they are happy that others are respecting their diversity. Understanding ones religious beliefs and acknowledging it will make him or her feel special. I enjoyed reading your post.
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